FAQ

Is this a legal document?

No. This is an organizational and communication tool. It is not legal advice and does not replace an attorney, a mediator, or your existing parenting plan or court order.

Do I need special software to use this

No, just a PDF reader, and optionally a free Google account if you'd like to use the spreadsheet versions.

What AI tools does the Message Builder work with

Any AI chatbot you already have access to - ChatGPT, Claude, and similar. It's a prompt you paste in, not a separate app to buy or install.

Is my information private?

The kit includes step-by-step instructions for removing your child's name and other identifying details before using any AI tool, and you should always review the AI's output yourself before sending anything.

What if my situation involves safety concerns, not just conflict?

This kit is not a safety-planning resource. If you are in immediate danger, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.