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As described in our Privacy Policy, we collect personal information from your interactions with us and our website, including through cookies and similar technologies. We may also share this personal information with third parties, including advertising partners. We do this in order to show you ads on other websites that are more relevant to your interests and for other reasons outlined in our privacy policy.

Sharing of personal information for targeted advertising based on your interaction on different websites may be considered "sales", "sharing", or "targeted advertising" under certain U.S. state privacy laws. Depending on where you live, you may have the right to opt out of these activities. If you would like to exercise this opt-out right, please follow the instructions below.

If you visit our website with the Global Privacy Control opt-out preference signal enabled, depending on where you are, we will treat this as a request to opt-out of activity that may be considered a “sale” or “sharing” of personal information or other uses that may be considered targeted advertising for the device and browser you used to visit our website.

Is this a legal document?

No. This is an organizational and communication tool. It is not legal advice and does not replace an attorney, a mediator, or your existing parenting plan or court order.

Do I need special software to use this

No, just a PDF reader, and optionally a free Google account if you'd like to use the spreadsheet versions.

What AI tools does the Message Builder work with

Any AI chatbot you already have access to - ChatGPT, Claude, and similar. It's a prompt you paste in, not a separate app to buy or install.

Is my information private?

The kit includes step-by-step instructions for removing your child's name and other identifying details before using any AI tool, and you should always review the AI's output yourself before sending anything.

What if my situation involves safety concerns, not just conflict?

This kit is not a safety-planning resource. If you are in immediate danger, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.